I'm a self-confessed 'CopyCat', but I did let my the girls know I was going to copy their questions to my blog..thanx hunnie bunnies.and my Kenyan sis Mona too.I did some editing though!! I've got a post stewing but so that I dont leave you without this week, I decided to do these questions...
1. What’s worse - Physical or Mental cheating?
Both!!So you busy thinking of some1 else, living on love island all lovey-dovey and ish you looking @ me??Dude, erase them thoughts..lol..Physically, if I were to catch any1 cheating, be it in person via text, email or online they’re dead meat!!LOL..
2. Is it easier to forgive or forget? *Sigh* To err is human, but to forgive DIVINE!! Its easier to say ‘I forgive you’, we mightn’t be holding onto grudges, we move on et all but FORGET we don’t. I did that post ‘Secret Places of the Soul’, we do keep it at the back of mind..so answering the question..i guess forgiving is easier but not easy!!
3. Can men and women be “Just Friends?” Hmm once we faze out the sexual tension and know that there’s no boning going on yup we can be ‘just friends’! I have errr 1 male friend who’s just like a brother to me
4. Dating co-workers? Hmmm, nope!I call this sh*tting on ur doorstep…so when you break up you have to face each other every day? But then again think of how you could both stay late at work and actually do the do in the CEO’s office??Classic!!!
5. All expenses paid vacation to anywhere? Tour de Afrique…yup I’d love to just explore all 53 countries of the Motherland..now wouldn’t that be something!! Some-how even though I'm in London, I've interacted with different African nationalities and have made vows to visit their home countries..first port of call - Nigeria!!!
6. Naughty or nice?? Ok I’d say I’m a lady in the streets and a freak in the u-know-where..lol…meaning I’m naughty when I want to be naughty and am nice all the time..lol..
7. Sex on the first date? Hmmm…no…lmao..Afro dont be shocked I did say no!!LOL…ok who just coughed 'b*llsh**'?U know what... it really depends on how horny you are...lmao...
8. When you are “In Love” do you notice other people? Ok, not to sound full of it, but they notice me instead!And its always the fine Lamman-Rucker type of brothas, who come up to me!!I’ll flirt I wont lie but it always ends there when I remind myself I have a man!!damn….
9. Is flirting cheating? Seeing my answer on 8 you know damn-well I’m going to say NO! I’mma Flirt!!
10. If someone called you a bitch would you be offended? Well, wiv me girls we call each other that most of the times, wiv love in it!(Wiv my girls we laughed so much when in Girlfriends they introduced the ‘b*tch jar’ coz we use it as a term of endearment..lol)But just let a brotha call me ‘Bitch’ and he’ll regret it..lol..yup double standards!!
11. Would you live with someone without marrying them? Ok, firstly if my sister is reading this then my answer is NO!! I know culturally its frowned upon by Africans to live together before marriage! But I’d live with some-one once engaged…
12. If you were to be reincarnated as an animal, what would you want to be? Do I get to choose where I’d be the animal?If yes, then I’d be a dog in Hollywood!!I’d be damned to be a dog in the gwashi's (village)in Africa…lol..
13. How many times would you have sex in a week? Once I read this question, this line from Fiddy's song came to mind ‘If he be a nympho then I be a nympho’…lol..heey would do as much as I can handle!!LOL…
14. Do you squeeze toothpaste from the middle or end of the tube? End of the tube..does it hurt any-one to work their way up?(This sounds err a bit on the naughty side ne?yup work my toothpaste tube like you would me..bottom to top…*naughty giggle)
15. What's the one thing that most people do that drives you crazy? Besides those squeeze toothpaste in the middle??Hmmm, people who assume..i so hate it when they make assumptions that I am able to do this, that I’ve got loads of cash etc…ever had plans made out for you without your knowledge???I so don’t like that!!
16. Last time you cried? Internally without the tears…last night!!With tears...hmmm watching Desperate Housewives - Gabby helping Carlos get dressed and he told her she looked beautiful...now that just got me shedding some tears ;(
17. Do you have any tattoos and piercings?Yes. I have two tattoos – one on my lower back – a cherub dedicated to my niece who passed on 7yrs in December…she’s my lil angel and never will I forget her!! I also have a lil star on my right wrist..dedication to my grand-dad ‘one more angel in heaven, one more star in the sky!!’ Some1 close to me once got into it over how ‘demonic’ and ‘cultic’ tattoos are…seriously…but mine are symbolic to me and I love them!!If you think like that..heey that’s you Piercings – ears, belly (got this as a bday present 7yrs ago from a friend) and tongue(though the tongue came out 2 wks ago and not fussed about having it re-done)
18. Have you ever flirted with someone you had no interest in? As if no-one knows the answer to this!! Lets sing it to together ‘I’ma I’ma I’ma flirt, I tell the truth and the whole truth!’
19. Ever been kissed in mid-sentence or rather mid-arguing? Yessir, was caught off-guard but me liked it..of course..
20. Would you buy bootleg merchandise?Is limewire bootlegging??Did you say yes??Then yessir me is a bootlegger, tell me why go to itunes when there’s limewire?I will stop when I get them letters they’ve said they will be sending out..its not like I cant afford to pay for itunes..but its free dude..FREE!!!
21. What color looks best on you?
Red and yellow and pink and green,Purple and orange and blue..I can sing a rainbow,!!...any colour looks fab on me!!yup m that full of it..lol…
22. What’s been the hardest thing you’ve had to do this month? Going to sign language classes and not say a word..just signing…its been hard but has made me appreciate all that I am and am able to do!
And being celibate...its not easy o..cue in P-Square's song 'This Na Tempation'..lol..
23. Ever break up with someone and regret it? Not break-up but I totally brushed off some-one(i just wasnt ready to date at that point and didnt want to lead them on) and then ‘what if’ played games wiv me …guess coz they called me on my birthday & I was like 'awwww u remembered'...
24. What's the one thing you would want to be remembered for?
My loyalty to friendships!!
25. Have you ever been to a strip club?
Of course I have! Went for a girl-friend’s dinner to Spearmint Rhino..and yup enjoyed dining whilst there was t*ts and a*s on show…them girls have mad skills! I do want to go to a Chappendales show though…
26. Who has the sexiest accents?
Indi*cough**cough*……different strokes for different folks....
Ze French…ooooh qui qui, its that certain je ne sai quoi in zeir accents and when they errr comment-dit..ahhh qui when zay say my name oooh…I dated a French guy for 4 yrs and I never got tired of the way he said my name..even the way his father said my name..lol..
27. What are your fears?
Heights!!Holes!! Losing my shoes..(lol…I have dreams about this u know..me barefoot in Zimbabwe…lol) I also fear losing the ones I love the most!!
28. What’s harder to say ‘sorry’ or ‘I love you’? Whoa…both? Well, I’m kinda stubborn but I’ve learnt its best to always own up and apologise…as for saying I love you..i find it easier to say to friends!
If you have more questions for me fire away..lol..and as always Happy Sexing xoxo