Tuesday, 26 August 2008

How do you keep it spicy and hot???

Firstly, I'd like to thank all those who sent me birthday wishes, it touched me and I got all warm n fuzzy inside. A special thanks goes to my girl Afrobabe...love you girl!

Following on from the last post we've now established that sex is VVImportant in a relationship, so how do we keep it interesting and not a mundane chore/task? So the idea of sex toys came to mind! And also not wanting to disappoint some of you's I'll mention the greatness that is Lord Rampant Rabbit Platinum Plus..lol..who's blushing?who's smiling?and who's denying any knowledge of the rabbit yet they have one? I will not be a prude and deny that which I own and use! When I purchased my rabbit it was an all girls' affair, we went to Ann Summers, giggling like naughty little girls and boy did we marvel a those adult 'toys'. The instore assistant happened to be this divine looking man, who willingly showed us the different earth-moving rabbits and their functions! I have never blushed like that before, especially when he showed us the many functions and it was whirling away. Then he asked the ultimate question 'Are you gorgeous ladies buying it as a present for a friend?', we giggled, played with our hair, smiled very suggestively and then said 'No, we all want one!'..lol..who remembers the joy you had at Christmas when you got that toy or shoes you were really wishing for? You should have seen us wanting to fly home if we could, we parted ways and told each other we would call each other with feedback...no-one called till the next day!!LOL...This toy comes with different speed levels (5 to be exact, but the art is not to have it going on too fast), the clit stimulator is out of this world, the dual rotating metal balls...i just say try it for yourself!!Hmmm just thinking of the vibrations and sensations I felt that day, tingles, electricity, shivers, damn or rather double damn!I was addicted and the joys of having your partner watch you enjoying Lord Rampant...priceless!

For men, some openly do say when the tough gets going they help themselves, right hand or left hand, some adult movies and they are good to go. And somehow its acceptable but I do know some women(especially African women) 'frown' upon those who own adult toys, and claim its not lady-like behaviour (self-pleasuring that is) but I say, so long as I dont start using the Rabbit in public dont judge me. I know I'm a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed!..lmao..toot toot..lol!!On a serious note, not all women are willing to try this and some see it as a sin

When you become director of your own choir, you get to know your body well, what stimulates you, your erogenous zones, and you become less inhibited ie more confident. Please note I'm not saying that's the only way this can be gained...as I always say there are many ways to stroke a cat! And also the Rampant Rabbit Platinum Plus is also a couple's toy, and its not the only toy out there, there are so many! Who remember's the Durex Ring advert? Rude Boy Male Toy, Rabbit Double Ring, there are also various lubes that can be used. Incorporating sex toys and also role play will keep the sex part of the relationship interesting and going! As much as I love me toys, i love the real deal more...but variety is the spice of life ne?lol

So my dears, how do you keep it spicy?Who owns our dearest Lord Rabbit?Or what toys do you have in your toy box? Share with me...and as always happy sexing xoxo

17 comments:

Afrobabe said...

Firsssssssssssssssssstttt, I hope...did I just see rabbit while I was scrolling down?

ShonaVixen said...

yes you did my dear..lmao...i fear what I've started..lol

Afrobabe said...

I am totally denying any knowledge of the rabbit!!!
Funny enough the first time I saw it was with a friend I considered sexually cold, she actually told me she was getting one, we also went into Ann summers giggling like school girls…she got the biggest they got…I am not admitting to going back oh…but really, there is nothing like the real thing…can a rabbit bite? Can it whisper? Can it kiss your neck and belly?
I actually got a lub that was supposed to make u cum on its own but was too shy to ever bring it out with a partner…

Ms.O said...

I am not a fan of toys and dont own any... tho I am planning on getting one next month!!...I will not say why(lol).. This Rabbit ish...hmmmmmmm iNTERESTING!!! ok am out!!

kay-shawn said...

Didn't know it was your birthday. Happy belated birthday and many returns of the day.

Don said...

happy belated, shonavixen. i really don't have anything to add to the topic i just wanted to come and read what afrobabe had typed.

Shubby Doo said...
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Shubby Doo said...

Hahaha...see my partners in crime i.e. afro & shona. One celeb (i think it is eva longoria but i could be very wrong so eva i'm sorry if that's the case) gets them as pressies 4 her girlfriends. it has its uses but I don't like the look of the thing sha.

In truth the real thing can't be beat! A hard man is a good thing...

Tairebabs said...

Happy belated birthday. Now let me go and read the post.

Parakeet said...

Eh Shona...you want me to spill my sexual secrets, na lie you talk. But really I prefer the real thing, however in the absence of that perhaps I could reach out to..ehm.

Happy bday...in arrears of cos.

SOLOMONSYDELLE said...

Rabbits? Toys? Happy sexing? Where am I? How did I get here? Please where is the exit so I am not corrupted by the likes of Shona and Afrobabe oh!

**crosses herself on the chest and reaches fro her Holy Bible**

lol!!!!!

Did Afrobabe just ask if a rabbit can bite? Oh, Chineke God of Africa have mercy and shield my eyes.....

hahahaha

naijalines said...

Happy belated birthday Shona. you didn't mention it on time, I could have sent you some lovely handcuffs - latest edition, lol. (Don't mind me...it's a different sexual imagery everyday. Today it's handcuffs!)

Well done girl for broaching the topic of sex toys. I'm not surprised that people appear to be avoiding it. It's like the last taboo of the African continent.

Well it's a shame that girls are missing out on a good thing...as you and I know. LOL.

People complain about their partners having affairs yet they are unwilling to explore what it takes to spice up their sex lives.

I'm not saying sex toys are compulsory for a good sex life. But they certainly open up your imagination to what works for you and your partner...as far as your bodies are concerned.

And yes I was once a proud owner of the rampant rabbit and my favourite bit was the clit stimulator.

My only regret is that I did not introduce myself to lord Rampant earlier. Because like so many African girls I'd held on to the belief that it was dirty to masturbate or use sex toys. What a load of rubbish. Sex toys are the most liberating activity in a girl's sex life, especially that of the single girl. It would save many single girls from abusive or unhealthy relationships, exploitative relationships with married men, STDs, etc. Cos they are taking care of their needs until the right man comes along.

Good for couples too. But I think the single girl needs it more to take care of her needs.

ShonaVixen said...

@Afro - i see u just want the real deal..of course its Afrobabe..lmao

@Ms O. - Gurl go and get urs!!

@Kay-Shawn - thank you very much

@Don - thank you and err y u want Afro's answer?Afro answer o...

@shubby-doo - my girl!!yes it cant beat the real deal but heey...lol!!


@Tairebabs - thanx hon

@Parakeet - thank u girlie and heey i see u want to keep ur special secrets hunh?...way to go girl..lol...


@Solomonsydelle - sorry o..u are one person I wouldnt want to corrupt..the trio will come after me, especially Monsieur Bone Crusher..lol..forgive me o xoxo

@Naijalines - its never too late for those handcuffs..i'll send through my address.
Girl, u really have said it all in ur comment!I cant even tell you how some1 came to claiming shock and horror on vibrators..hello..it doesnt make me one of loose morals just because i've decided to mention sex toys which are 'taboo' and not meant to be used!But then again thats our African society, we want to always appear wholesome and innocent, but hello we can always vamp up our sex lives!!
Once more, u've said it!!

Funms said...

i remember the first time i bought a vibrator. i'd to buy it from annsummers online..... i was thrilled when it arrived but really, theres nothing like the real thing....when its available
ive never brought out sex toys with a bf before, maybe i'd try it with the next one......

rethots said...

Hmmmm, running thots...................

Aphrodite said...

I have got a rabbit too.
Not sure if it's the same Rampant Rabbit Platinum Plus you talked about tho.

Sad thing is, I cannot work it! Too bad right?

NikkiSab said...

Happy belated Birthday gal!!! I had a vibrator as a birthday present in 2001 - i returned it with immediate alacrity cos i like d real tin. lol. To stay spicey..... i use my imagination and hope my man follows ensuite.