Monday, 11 May 2009

Comment Ça Va?


My last few posts have been about me(yes Shubby I will answer all your questions soon), and not wanting to be selfish, I wanted this one to be about you!
So today Blogville, I ask with concern and sincerity..HOW ARE YOU? Give me all the gory details, so what if I’m opening a can of worms?I mightn’t have the solutions to what’s on your mind but today I want to ask that question and truly mean it, I don’t want to seem too busy ‘living’ that I don’t wait to hear the answer or expect you to say ‘Fine’..Nope, lets break it down…HOW ARE YOU DOING TODAY?? Once more be honest, if you're not fine and want to vent, go ahead, if you're ecstatic about something, share with me, if you feel like crying and words are the least you want to say, then I send you a hug! Talk to me dearest friends...as always Happy Sexing xoxo

Your greatness is measured by your kindness; your education and intellect by your modesty; your ignorance is betrayed by your suspicions and prejudices, and your real caliber is measured by the consideration and tolerance you have for others.” William J.H.Boetcker

60 comments:

Tigeress said...

pls tell me i'm 1st!

UnderCover07 said...

Ca Va Bien Merci...lol.
1st!!!!

Tigeress said...

how am i? trying to decide whether to give u the expected answer which is I'm fine thank you or release all my burdens on u and get it off my chest. Eeemmmmm..........
I'm ok today actually. waaaaaayyyy better than last week. My tenant finally got served so i'm in Chi for court. Praise the Lord!!!! I am so releaved. Plus i found another tenant thru my agent. eeemmm.....what else wld i like to share......eemmm.....nothing much happening with my sweets!

Now, how ARE u twinny? Hope u're good. It's been a minute since u've posted- hope u're not gradually leaving us.

Dante said...

third!!!

Tigeress said...

Yipee!!! I was first. lol!!

*me- sweets.

Tigeress said...

sorry UnderCover. hehehehehe

Bibi said...

How am I? Well, u asked for it. I am not fine o! Took my mom mother's day shopping abd she emptied my wallet but that one a anoda day story. But how are you?

Dante said...

Hmm...I am Ok ooo.
I am bit tired today..work has been grueling for the past one month. I think I need a vacation and I just applied for a leave..I hope I get my full 30 days..lol..

Asides that..I am ok..
Shona..How are you?

ShonaVixen said...

@Tigeress - Yes YOU ARE TWINNY!!!

@UnderCover07 - Glad to hear you're doing well. Unfortunately Tigeress beat you to it!!

@Tigeress - Nah the expected answer today isn't I'm fine..I want to know how you really are and glad you shared! Definitely Praise the Lord that your tenant has now been served..phewww!! Even I'm relieved for you hon! I know what she was putting you through..so once more Praise the Lord!!
How am I?Hmmm Horny as Hell..LOL!!!

@Dante yes you are!!

ShonaVixen said...

@Bibi - Sorry for the empty wallet, but I know the smile on your mother's face was very much worth it!
Well besides what I answered to Tigeress, my desk is full of files and i have to clear them by Wednesday but I won't be putting in any overtime..nope i refuse!!Hmmm, guess need to make the most of an Assistant right?

@Dante - Wow, a full month, planning to do anything exciting on your time off?? I sure hope they give you all the 30days and you rest for all the 30 days!!
Shona is doing ok!

Non-non said...

arghh the love real shuwa...
I am shattered today, full of yawns and fighting an oncoming flu. Inside i feel content and jus pleased that all is well.

HOW ARE YOU HON apart from being horny like norm?

ShonaVixen said...

@Non-Non - Do take some lemon and honey to stop that flu coming on! and some rum too!!(not too much though)
Girl don't sideline my horniness, shuuu its a BIG issue at the moment, its now close to 400days and about time I got some..now where to get it is the next issue..LOL!!
Love u boo xxx

Funms-the rebirth said...

how sweet of u to ask........ im great, thankful for a new week that started on a positive note- i woke up real early to go running.....!!!! Praise God....
how have u been darling?

scribble,me.free said...

Hi Shona!

hmmm...what's going on with me?

tired..but not much else...new site btw

blogroll http://scribblemefree.com/?feed=rss2

Jayla. said...

am on auto-pilot mode...... really don't know how i am, basically just existing minute by minute.

Actually i found a pole dancing course that put a smaile on my face, just have to find a spare £150 for it.

How are you me dear?

ShonaVixen said...

@Funms - Wow girl, you go running!!WOW!! I respect thee!!..Coz unless there's some alsatian behind me I ain't running...such a shame right??..LOL!! M smiling at the moment, my girl comes with the silliest suggestions so she's making my day go by quickly wiv her silly emails!!

@Hey Scribbles - hmmm what's got you tired?Partying hard are we?? Must say I'm loving the new blog dude, and sorry about the BBerry!!
M getting mine on Wednesday!!Yay

@Jayla - Hey hunny bunny!!Pole dancing does put a smile on my face too considering I've got class this evening..sigh..my thighs always hurt after the 2hrs!! but m getting so toned i aint complaining!
I'm fine after the whole disappointment from last time..so m good..and also excited that you're my sister in law..LOL!!!

Kemberly said...

Thanks for asking! I'm not doing too good. So much is going on around me... so many demons that I have to fight, but I know that everything will be ok...

Plus...I'm SUFFERING from seasonal allergies :(

wordmerchant said...

Hey sis

Today i am actually fine, i am grateful that stupid cold has almost cleared and i am for some reason in a mood of thankfullness for my life, my family, friends and all you sugars on blogsville xxx

sting said...

I'm okay, i just wish i have found an apartment for me and my doggie. I'm getting stressed out. PLUS, i'm sick of this job.

Afrobabe said...

you are soooo wicked...you didn't tell me...

running home now...read when I get there...

~Sirius~ said...

Are you sure you really want to know?

I am breaking out terribly on my face!!!!
I never have pimples!!!!

Day 1 and mother nature is kicking my ass this month!

Clients are having a ball with unrealistic demands and deadlines.

My account has disowned me.

I am FAT!.......ok I take that back.

I have put on weight! after 6 long years on maintaing good weight and now begun straving myself officially!

I have pimples!!!!!...........*sob sob

PS: Please ignore me, Ce la vie
How are you Sweetie?

Tigeress said...

Horny as hell ke? wahala (trouble!!). lol!! I'm thinking of someone to introduce u to. someone SINGLE! lol!!

I'm gonna shoot u an email in a bit.

Afrobabe said...

How am I? hmmmm...fine, could be better of course if that hunk corporated...

Angel said...

Today darling I am fine. happy and all in my love cocoon, I feel that I can tackle the world and im excitied as its only 3 weeks until my holiday and my birthday is on friday!!

I just ate, checked my blog, and now im about to chill!!

Hope you are cool x

Trybes said...

Since you asked,i might as well blot it out...lol

I have been way too horny this week despite the fact that i have been hounded on all fours with school work and office crap..but it can only get better sha..

how have you been yourself?

Shubby Doo said...

hissssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!! next time...which kain next time be tdi again?

ok fine...i go give u one more chance my sista...but if you no gree answer next...e be like say na go use fire blast you....:-P


sista girl...i'm fine thank u...very tired...heard people in my old dept are being made redundant because there is no forseeable future work at that location...i kinda feel guilty for leaving but i'm grateful to God that when he told me it was time to leave i did...
i pray this credit crunch will end or at least ease up a little quicker

i should be excited about my hols but 'm cranky too...dunno why i cant seem get past the here and now...wish i had someone to hold me tight and tell me it will all be ok...only if it's the right kinda guy sha...419ers need not apply else they will be advised to take a long walk of a short plank...*SMH*...see what i mean...i soo need a break!!!

Shubby Doo said...

so how are you?

ShonaVixen said...

@Kemberly - I hope those demons get squashed and its all well with you hon! *virtual hug* Girl, I get seasonal allergies too and m thinking this year its worse, walking around with bloodshot swollen eyes, sneezing every darn minute and my eczema is acting up too!!SIGH...So I know what you're going through, just take the anti-histamines they kind of help

@Wordmerchant - Wassup sistren!! Glad to hear that cold wasnt any pig flu..yay! And gratitude brings more happiness into one's life!! M grateful for all you honies too!!

@Sting - I hope you find a home for you and your doggie soon!And about the job, maybe you should start looking elsewhere?Though the market doesn't look too good @ the moment...geez, I did say I'm not Oprah right??..LOL..

@Afro - I'm sorry darling!I promise, promise next time I blog, you shall be first..I'll call you before i click publish!!

@Sirius - My girl!! Yes, I want to know and let me know you did..LOL..
Sorry for the break-out on your face, same with me I've never had a breakout so I can only imagine what you're going through.
On your weight gain, try dieting, avoid sweets and fatty foods..hmmm what else would Oprah say??..lol..oooh eat your 5 fruit and veg a day!!Drink plenty of water too
And nope I won't ignore you hon!
And your pharmacist might recommend a cleanser for your face for that break-out too!

@Tigeress - LOL..I do know what wahala means..LOL..And yup na serious wahala this one because @ the moment I'll pounce on any-one who gets too close to me.LOL..i dont think m joking about that one..LOL..Just saw your email this morn and I'll get back to you and nway we will talk later this evening!!
And this person you want to introduce me to..what is their role..to fulfill my fleshy desires because thats main priority so i suggest you question them on their skills and lasting abilities!!..LOL!!

@Afro - ooooh that hunk, i sure hope he co-operates soon before you pounce on him..literally..LOL!!

@Angel - Heey girl!! Awww you and Mr Special are soo cute..makes me want my own Mr Special..sniff..sniff..OK, back to reality..I know you've got a lot planned out for your bday week, hope you have fun and I'll make a loud bday shout out on FRIDAY!!Yaaay!!

@Trybes - LOL...glad to know I'm not the only one!!Hope you get some soon and that it all gets better soon!*Virtual hug to you*

ShonaVixen said...

@Shubby - Yes next time for I don't want to be deleted from your blogroll now!! and no fire o..LOL..
Its a good thing you left before all this firing and down-sizing, I also hope that the credit crunch eases down soon!
My sister you are cranky and I know the solution...get some on your holiday..you will release all the crankiness and tension and heey what happens there stays there(not sure if i should now say where you are going..LOL), and since you'll be in a lot of places u just might get some no??..LOL...
LOL@ no 419ers, in this credit crunch a 419er will probably now say he was laid off by Merrill Lynch or something..lol..but yup no 419ers!!!
I'm fine my dear, slept in an awkward position me thinks so my neck is all sore..and yes I was sleeping alone not with any-one! I'm so due a massage, need to go on the hunt for an affordable one!!

tobenna said...

I.......
I'm doing just fine....
Getting along very well....
Without you in my...
I don't need you in my life...
REPEAT
Time may be longer...
But you're no longer on my miiinnd.

Thats whats happening.

wordmerchant said...

lol@tobenna. Why are you quoting boyz to men lyrics? heheheheh

ShonaVixen said...

@Tobenna - Boyz2Men...Evolution Album, one of my fave songs on that album the other songs are Dear God, 4 seasons of loneliness and A song for Mama!
So you doing just fine then Tobenna?

@Wordmerchant - LOL...search me...i think he's listening to the CD or he's doing just fine!

tobenna said...

You win, you WIN!
Sheesh...
I didn't even know that much detail!
Yeah, I'm doing fine...
Sounds like you are too?

ShonaVixen said...

@Tobenna - *smug look on my* Yes!!I WON!!!! I'm actually doing fine, upto rush downstairs and top-up on my snacks, need some Kitkat, and Salt n Vinegar chips..otherwise I am doing just fine...had to YouTube the Just Fine video...so thank you Tobenna, now you've got me playing Boyz2Men!!

Zena said...

Thanks for asking,

I'm fine I guess, presentation did not go well at all, I have to learn to stop being afraid of people, white boy sabotaged all of us in front of the clients, kept on saying "I did this" and "I did that" made the rest of us look Incompetent "sigh"

That's me rambling, but yeah...I'm trying to be optimistic

cerberus said...

muchas gracias Shona for adding me.
Not up to much on this side. work and loads of play.

tobenna said...

:P
While you are on the Boys2Men tip, you might as well serenade yourself to "I'll make love to you"
:D

By the way, are you working or @ home? 'Cos it dont sound like you're at work....

blackwomenblowthetrumpet.blogspot.com said...

Hey there Shona!

I just found your blog and my recent post was about celibacy!! Now I know why I found you!!

Feel free to share in the discussions any time!

Peace, blessings and DUNAMIS!
Lisa

Original Mgbeke said...

I'm fine. Been thinking a lot...so many thoughts in my head. Thinking that I need to push myself more and adopt more of a 'Yes I can' mentality. I don't know jare, I have a lot of stuff swirling around in my head, I think I will do a good ol' journal entry.
Thanks for asking...how are YOU?

K said...

Oooh I see I ahve been a bit late. All I can say is with my recent illness I am now better and now my only concern is school...ugh!

I hope you are well girl!

ShonaVixen said...

@Zena - Aaaah there's always the sabotager @ work, i say spike his coffee with laxatives..LOL!!Do stay optimistic hon!!

@Cerebus - U're welcome!! And glad to hear some have the play going on too!!

@Tobenna - But why??..Self-torture!! I actually had Dear God on repeat yesterday and yup m @ work and actually working VERY hard too..MULTI-TASKING..lol!!

@BWBTT - I loved your post on celibacy and actually glad you dropped by leading me to finding your blog...loving your blog!!! Ohh by the way I had to google DUNAMIS!!..lol..and I've learnt something new!

@OriginalMg - Thinking is good and a journal entry would help very much, putting down and as your write more will come through too!And as an Obamafied chica, I'd say 'YES, YOU CAN!!'
This morning I'm not fine, yesterday I got angry, so angry that I cried, I had to call my BFF, poor Tee-Tay, she just let me vent..but I was mad..the venting, the crying made it all better..but somehow I just feel so damn down!! Kinda like I hate getting that angry ..geez lemme stop rambling, its about you guys not me!!

@K - Hey girlie, I missed you!!really..shoot me an email or something neglecting me coz of your silly withdrawal symptoms..LOL!! Hope you're feeling much better and school is going well with Professor McCutie!!

Sexkitten said...

Hi Shona sweetie, how are you? I love that quote.

I'm doing wonderful, thank you. blissfully happy with my Kenny. Having lots and lots of sex. My boys are happy and well adjusted. I'm working on that masters degree, traveling, getting paid to write smut, and everything else.

Like I said...wonderful. I hope things are going well for you too.

LusciousRon said...

Je va bien merci. Doing just fine but could do without the headache. How are you.

Oyin said...

its ok to blog about yourself.....


keep your head up and always have that high self esteem....

Rita said...

You are more than a darling...

Right now I am sleepy. When I wake up, probably I will have something to say.

Miss Definitely Maybe said...

Im am wondering how to magically turn my 67 kilos of shoes, tops jeans and make up into the 30 kgs baggage allowance Lufthansa allows for business class.......whats the point of going on holiday if i cant take my shoe closet with me? I need to marry me a millionaire and travel first class thats what i need.......ignore my ramblings...But shona if you wealthy please marry me before my flight on Saturday!!!!!!!!

naijagirl said...

You know, I have been told that "how are you" is a greeting and not an excuse to elaborate on all the thing going wrong in your life, so i am just wondering if your question is a greeting to which i shall say....bien bien,

ShonaVixen said...

@SexKitten - My girl!!Just glad that everything is Wonderful for you..gosh after I typed in Wonderful, that RKelly and Ja Rule song came into my mind now I gots to hear it..lol!!M doing good too, just drugged out with all the pain killers and antihistamines I've taken this morn..might go home early!

@LusciousRon - Awww hon, hope the headache's gone away!M doing good good, health aside, m good!

@Oyin - Yeah its ok to blog about self, but also need to appreciate those (like yourself)who come to read my blog and know how they're doing!! Yup high self esteem is intact, and in check!!I love me some me!!

@Rita - oooh thank you hon!!You're a darling too!!Hope you had a good night's sleep girl xxx

@MDM - I hear you girl!! Hope you can fit them shoes, tell them its just like medication, a NECESSITY!!Pretty please bring me some biltong oooh and True Love Magazine SA...thank you!!:)xxxHope you have a safe trip and enjoy a place i miss so much, next planned trip there is in December!
And oooh I'll marry you..in 2 years!!..LOL...

@Naijagirl - Well, this isn't a greeting hon, its more and wanted you to elaborate on all the things going on in your life!..So once more Naijagirl I ask 'How are you?'

bob-ij said...

I'm 49th...lol...Stale me! I'm No can of worms here...I'm doing great! Trip this weekend....time with family, what can be better? Except that I have twin pimples nesting on my forehead!

x!

One Eighteen said...

I am very tired... I need a redbull, THEN i'll be fine lol thanks for asking!

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RocNaija said...

For some reason I thought I posted here..
Roc's feeling good like Kanye's life..

PS.. Mind if I use an adaptation of that excert on my blog?
All literary credits inclusive..

ShonaVixen said...

BOB-LJ - Don't worry hon number 49 aint that bad..lol..Sure hope you have fun on your family trip (gosh dont even remember when I went on a family trip..need to sort that out!..lol) and sure hope the twins disappear soon!

@OneEighteen - For some reason I thought of OneOneEight and m not a fan of their adverts! Redbull gives you wiiiiings!!!..LOL..

@Roc - Wow...just so that you know I had to think long and hard on this one.. m even still contemplating coz thats part of my project...but then again what artist doesnt inspire other pieces of work?
Any money that's going to be made from that masterpiece we split 75-25 me getting the 75% of course!

ShonaVixen said...

@Roc - This will be just on Blogville right?Its not going into any publication?Otherwise I'll get my lawyer ie me representing myself and take legal action..

Original Mgbeke said...

Awwww, hope you are feeling much berra now babe.

Emeka Amakeze said...

How are you, Shona?

ShonaVixen said...

@OriginalM - I would love to say I'm better but m not...arrrrggggggh...I have booked an appointment with the doc and optician coz these headaches are driving me insane..but then again I was using glue all day yesterday so I just might be high on glue or a glue hangover???..LOL...

@Emeka - Shona, has migraines and is at work on a Saturday for a Board meeting...some-one tell me why these folks like to have their meetings on a Saturday?? So its not good so far but I'm so making up for it this evening!! And how are YOU?

Chi-Chi said...

At first I was fine today but as I lay down

I am really sad that my mum who came just for the weekend is leaving 2mrw.

I'm indeed very sad...

RocNaija said...

No worries..
Roc got it covered..

Besides I'll probably adapt it..
Might be interesting to see what I come up with..

miz-cynic said...

Your greatness is measured by your kindness; your education and intellect by your modesty; your ignorance is betrayed by your suspicions and prejudices, and your real caliber is measured by the consideration and tolerance you have for others.” William J.H.Boetcker
this na real food for thought

i have noticed tht people really remeber and appreciate and talk abt people whom they feel was/is truly nice...in my books tht means ur great
the second stmt about education is summed up by empty barrels they say makes the most noise

lack of exposure especially my yyoruba lokis who are always quik to assume someone in their mother's villa dey do them are only ignorant

ShonaVixen said...

@Chi-Chi - I so know how u feel!!!

@Roc - cool!!

@Miz-cynic - Girl, that quote is the truth!And you are so right about remembering people we genuinely feel are nice...though we also remember the vile ones too