tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post7993920624029530673..comments2023-08-19T14:20:28.983+01:00Comments on SHONA VIXEN: Thin Line Between Love & HateShonaVixenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comBlogger35125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-86215788314665990442008-11-18T12:54:00.000+00:002008-11-18T12:54:00.000+00:00Hmmm, interesting post....and I guess at my time s...Hmmm, interesting post....and I guess at my time should I even be here....talking about jealousy, cheating, and dishonesty. Well here goes... there is a such thing as healthy jealousy. But when you are a women that has been scorned by a man so many times...you know what signs to look for. <BR/><BR/>You know:<BR/>*Hiding the phone<BR/>*Phone on vibrate/silent<BR/>*Answering the phone suspicious<BR/>*Pretending to answer the phone<BR/>*Looking nervous when the phone rings<BR/>*Baby sitting his phone (Carrying his phone everystep he takes...even rest room)<BR/><BR/><BR/>*** So you know your girl gotta check that phone....whats up with this phone...that he gotta hug that motherblicky...all the time. Jealousy is not easy to overcome...both parties have to make the relationship secure... once the trust is broken the relationship has to reinstated. It wont be easy for either to get past what has just happened. But if they truly love each other...they will.<BR/><BR/>Stay sweet and take care, I will ^_^Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-89945764916428526062008-11-16T19:30:00.000+00:002008-11-16T19:30:00.000+00:00i cant put comment on your recent post o.did u and...i cant put comment on your recent post o.<BR/><BR/>did u and MDM buy your beds from the same place- Ikea..this one that both your beds are broken?? hehealotedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17293074684237435820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-28536527953665247522008-11-15T00:16:00.000+00:002008-11-15T00:16:00.000+00:00For real, I still feel like I'm in a dream wit...For real, I still feel like I'm in a dream with O'Breezy as the President-elect. It will certainly bolster a lot of African Americans though. (I think & hope)<BR/><BR/><BR/>As per exes... You did the right thing by hanging up on that girl. All that checking up on your dude is just random 13 y.o. nonsense. I haven't tried fighting for anyone yet. Would definitely NOT call anyone in his phone to see who it is cos where would the trust (and maturity) be then? A girl actually called me asking who I was cos she saw my phone number in her bf's phone records (yep, she went beyond the call logs since call logs can be deleted). Turns out she was my cousin's gf. I was so disgusted. And they didn't date for much longer after that.archiwizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07754766915372324166noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-91206193094849106222008-11-13T21:49:00.000+00:002008-11-13T21:49:00.000+00:00why is blogger hating on me o?6mths ehn...i will w...why is blogger hating on me o?6mths ehn...i will write a letter of complaint to Mr Blogger..lol..(remember white chicks..dear Mr Hamptons?..lol)<BR/><BR/>those phone calls annoy me, actually m still annoyed sha!Yeah i hear you when you say you'll call just to check for info but i guess its how its all done...the one who called me last week already assumed i was doing her man, please Shona aint been getting busy wiv any1 let alone 'her man'...mcccheww...cue in Neesey from All of Us 'She lucky i found Jesus'..lol..ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-69172664192693559432008-11-13T21:33:00.000+00:002008-11-13T21:33:00.000+00:003rd shona why is your blogger telling me that your...3rd shona why is your blogger telling me that your blog has not been updated for 6 months @ mine...wtf?!!!Shubby Doohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02739382022583876470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-82615622145454953222008-11-13T21:32:00.000+00:002008-11-13T21:32:00.000+00:002nd i confess that i've done the facebook thing......2nd i confess that i've done the facebook thing... it just isn't healthy.<BR/><BR/>i hate it when girl calls me up...i had so many do that me...it always causes a fight with the guy...be it just friends (i'm not interested in anybody's insecurities jare) or a boyfriend (usually meant he was cheating)<BR/><BR/>i confess i have done it on one occasion...my ex was driving me crazy...i just couldn't understand his behaviour...i found out that my ex had 2 other girlfriends...one wanted to fight with me but I just wanted to know dates and I made it very clear my knowing about them meant it was over with him…one wanted to fight…I was like please whatever…i had no interest in fighting them or him...by then it was no longer about love or hate...i just wanted outShubby Doohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02739382022583876470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-19633452325196870552008-11-13T21:24:00.000+00:002008-11-13T21:24:00.000+00:001st...barack...all i have to say is the future bel...1st...barack...all i have to say is the future belongs to those who give the next generation reason to hope… so i say dum spiro, spero (while I breath, I hope)… yes o!… because I see hope as faith holding out its hand in the dark… on November 4th 2008, together a nation of people took hold of it and made a dream become reality… i pray that it has led to a new dawn… AMENShubby Doohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02739382022583876470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-61094811434908032492008-11-13T20:55:00.000+00:002008-11-13T20:55:00.000+00:00@vera - I hear you gurl..lol...@FFF - I know gurl,...@vera - I hear you gurl..lol...<BR/><BR/>@FFF - I know gurl, talent is passing on, heaven must be so musical...<BR/><BR/>@Emeka - well said, dont want to find none, dont go starting none..lol..and trust is the basis of a strong foundation...<BR/><BR/>@NDQ - You are so like me, i dont have the time to play SnoopMaster really!And i never show it too..lol..thanx for enjoying the music!!<BR/><BR/>@MDM - i guess its that degree of accountability that some will run with and end up being stalkers and ish all in the name of 'accountability'..lol..<BR/><BR/>@buttercup - u're so right hon...wth!!!and Mama Afrika was just whoa, i remember when she sang the former Zim national anthem and the South African national anthem 'Nkosi Sikelela'...ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-22577624974435312462008-11-13T20:41:00.000+00:002008-11-13T20:41:00.000+00:00@Nefertiti - hey they do say forewarned is fore-ar...@Nefertiti - hey they do say forewarned is fore-armed no?..lol..<BR/><BR/>@Dejanae - i heart u 2!!Hey i have always loved Dr Seuss from when i first came contact wv his work which was in 5th grade!!and yup hope is alive!!<BR/><BR/>@bumight - gurl glad your bp is now on the normal level, me wants you healthy!!ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-72159557793544291002008-11-12T17:37:00.000+00:002008-11-12T17:37:00.000+00:00I cant believe those that actually call all the fe...I cant believe those that actually call all the females on their bfs phones, as in, what the hell???<BR/><BR/>Gosh i loved miriam makeba..i used to call her my mummy when i was lil..i wonder how my mum felt..its so sad..Buttercuphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00182390815082496865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-10730267961740428872008-11-11T22:49:00.000+00:002008-11-11T22:49:00.000+00:00Am not jealous or possessive when in a relationshi...Am not jealous or possessive when in a relationship but im big on transparency.....so phone calls that someone has to get out of the room to take are a no no, so is 'girl friends' that i never get introduced to or never get to meet. I think everyone in a relationship is a free agent but there should be some degree of accountabilityMiss Definitely Maybehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02812755876909158625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-75822337730407464032008-11-11T22:11:00.000+00:002008-11-11T22:11:00.000+00:00The one thing I dont have energy for is snooping. ...The one thing I dont have energy for is snooping. I think it bothered this guy I was dating once that I never questioned him or whatever...so he would tell me stuff like I went out with so and so...and I would just be like cool. It could be dieing inside with jealousy or curiosity but I have perfected the art of pretence...and so far I've saved myself extra drama...lol! Loving your playlist btw!Nigerian Drama Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05571464276621601553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-51556297130033102932008-11-11T22:03:00.000+00:002008-11-11T22:03:00.000+00:00If you don't want to find something, don't go look...If you don't want to find something, don't go looking. The best i've done to protect my relationship is trust. Anything short of it will always produce imaginary images of rival and that will always make you suspicious and on the edge. http://streamsong.blogspot.comEmeka Amakezehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03933290792820413011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-85791976396914092352008-11-11T12:06:00.000+00:002008-11-11T12:06:00.000+00:00miriam makeba is dead!!!!!! wen did dat happen????...miriam makeba is dead!!!!!! wen did dat happen????? lawd have mercy. so many talented pple dying off!!!! am n shockFlourishing Floridahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13587385454888882192noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-80498129914682296592008-11-11T06:23:00.000+00:002008-11-11T06:23:00.000+00:00I have not done anything after a bitter break up, ...I have not done anything after a bitter break up, but I have wished I had the guts, money, connections, and certification of not being caught, so that I could send some people who feel like breaking a few bones 2 break his bones. lol. But I'm over that thought now.Vera Ezimorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06387648478708776748noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-67381162506379855652008-11-11T01:51:00.000+00:002008-11-11T01:51:00.000+00:00i have been down the checking the phone, facebook ...i have been down the checking the phone, facebook line, and i can say its not worth it, definitely not good for my bp. <BR/>I think I'm calmer now and my bp is in the normal range, lol.bumighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16921134538404613210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-64895701206443084082008-11-10T22:48:00.000+00:002008-11-10T22:48:00.000+00:00hahadid u come with the dr seuss quote?i heart uye...haha<BR/>did u come with the dr seuss quote?<BR/>i heart u<BR/><BR/>yep<BR/>hope is shining real bright these daysdejanaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07052082904553497262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-85647902314110959122008-11-10T17:16:00.000+00:002008-11-10T17:16:00.000+00:00I'm very vindictive when it comes to this type of ...I'm very vindictive when it comes to this type of stuff. I always tell him 'don't make me suspect you' but did he listen? naaahhhh. I have gone as far as doing a drive by his job just to make sure he's really at work, or his house to make sure he's there. I have some 'special' numbers forever etched in my memory, so even when there's no name to the number, I know xactly who's calling. He calls me 'the watcher'.. what can I say. I know there are a thousand women out there who see what I see. The key is to prevent them from 'dipping in MY cookie Jar'... gosh I sound psychopathic...lolNefertitihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01272653815975890429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-48017446277448854152008-11-10T16:50:00.000+00:002008-11-10T16:50:00.000+00:00I wish I was joking, I just couldnt believe some1 ...I wish I was joking, I just couldnt believe some1 was doing 'Question Time' on me and expecting me to justify a friendship...aint like I'd even sent any insuniating texts/calls/emails or whateva!!She just lucky I wasnt in the cussing out mood..but she did tick me off!!ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-29289866206505886652008-11-10T16:19:00.000+00:002008-11-10T16:19:00.000+00:00uhn?? are u actually serious? calling all the babe...uhn?? are u actually serious? calling all the babes on his fone?? really!! wow!Black Berryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04386067207559399473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-26854667540719575862008-11-10T11:31:00.000+00:002008-11-10T11:31:00.000+00:00@Danny - aint that the truth!@Mr Luvable - glad yo...@Danny - aint that the truth!<BR/><BR/>@Mr Luvable - glad you like my music selection, I know quite a few more folks like it too, I try to change it a bit (Young Jezzy's My President is Black' will have a permanent slot on the Top 5) but never before did i have 'Afternoon Requests'..lol..Do me, I do you, thats PSquare right??Unfortunately its not my fav PSquare song...No one Like You or Ifunanya(dont know abt the spelling, forgive I'm a Shona girl..lol)<BR/><BR/>@Oluwadee - maybe you are, maybe u not..lol..ShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-70156832872914946452008-11-10T09:53:00.000+00:002008-11-10T09:53:00.000+00:00Hubby says i'm very Possessive; mayb I am, may...Hubby says i'm very Possessive; mayb I am, mayb I’m not.<BR/><BR/>I like d me and my husband thing.<BR/>& I will always ask, who was that on d phone (if I don’t know who it was).O'Deehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07678018050951152616noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-18218967374325620462008-11-09T23:35:00.000+00:002008-11-09T23:35:00.000+00:00hey i find my self listening 2 yo play list , requ...hey i find my self listening 2 yo play list , request . do me and i do u lol memories hahahaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-4092576648907177982008-11-09T23:18:00.000+00:002008-11-09T23:18:00.000+00:00The classic example of the "Love/ Hate paradox" an...The classic example of the "Love/ Hate paradox" antithetical yet separated by only a very thin line..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-407895104586814122.post-80400934607493065112008-11-09T23:02:00.000+00:002008-11-09T23:02:00.000+00:00@Parakeet...lol gurl...you made the top 10 though ...@Parakeet...lol gurl...you made the top 10 though so thats great..lol..<BR/><BR/>@Miss Love- Keep Hope Alive hon!!There's always a next time!!Ay no apologies for the long comment, its welcome on this place!!I totally understand the thoughts going on in your head, gurl, i once thought of doing a Left-Eye, and actually saw myself sneaking in, starting an inferno n all...gosh funny now when i think of it!!But hey girl, thinking it and doing it are two different things...you'll be aiight gurl, and Shony is here for ya!!<BR/><BR/><BR/>@Audzz - guess the more intense you feel the more the negative feelings also come flowing!Just glad you're dealing with them in a positive manner, enjoy the relationship boo xoxoShonaVixenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03745455482846320144noreply@blogger.com